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Spell out your roles, limits and rules together. Download it, fill it in, and sign it, on screen or on paper.
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A conversation, written down.
The BDSM contract is a simple worksheet for you and your partner(s). You each mark what you love, what you are curious about and what is off the table, then write down your roles, safewords and rules in one place.
It is not a legal document, and it never replaces consent in the moment. Anyone can change their mind at any time. Its real power is getting you talking before you play.
Hot is better when everyone's on the same page.
No guessing
Know what your partner wants to try, and what they do not, before the scene starts. No awkward mind reading.
Easier to say the hard stuff
Writing it down takes the pressure off. A mark on a page can say what is hard to say out loud.
Safety sorted
Hard limits, safewords, health notes and aftercare preferences all live in one place you can both find.
Room to grow
Your answers can change as you do. Revisit the contract together, update it, and keep exploring with trust.
Three pages. Everything you need to talk about.
Page 1
Names, roles and preferences
Write down who is involved and the role each person plays. Then work through six categories (pain, bondage, sensations, intimacy, power play and sexual) and mark what you would like to receive and give.
Page 2
Boundaries, body map, safety and signatures
Add hard limits and triggers, mark areas not to touch on the body map, note safewords, health information and aftercare preferences, then sign and date.
Page 3
Rules and punishments
Use the appendices to write down the rules you agree on and any agreed consequences. Keep them clear, fair and easy to revisit.
Pick your version.
Same contract, two formats. Both are completely free, and you do not need to enter your email.
Fill-in version
A dark design made for screens. Open it on your tablet, phone or computer and fill it in with any PDF markup tool.
Download the fill-in PDF
Printable version
A light version made for printing. Print it, grab a pen and fill it in by hand, together or on your own.
Download the printable PDFThree steps. One honest talk.
Fill it in solo
Go through it on your own first, so your answers are honest and your own.
Swap and talk
Share your contracts, compare answers and talk through the differences. This is where the magic happens.
Sign and revisit
Sign it together when you are both comfortable, and come back to update it as things change.
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Take the BDSM TestYour questions, answered.
Is the BDSM contract legally binding?
No. It is a guideline for communication, not a legal document. Consent can be withdrawn at any time, for any reason, even after you have signed. The contract never replaces checking in with each other in the moment.
Do I need a contract to start exploring BDSM?
No. Plenty of people never use one. But writing things down is a helpful way to start the conversation, especially if you are new or find it hard to talk about desires out loud.
Can I fill it in on my own?
Yes, and it is a good idea. Filling it in solo first helps you work out your own wants and limits before you compare notes with a partner.
Can I use it with more than one partner?
Yes. Each person can fill in their own copy, and there is space to write the names and roles of the partner(s) involved. Use one contract per pairing if that is clearer for your setup.
How often should we update it?
Whenever something changes. Many couples revisit it every few months, or after trying something new. Your limits and interests can change, and so can your contract.
Ready to put it in writing?
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